Here’s another nugget of wisdom as we wrap up January 2023. Today, I want us to pivot our mindset and shift our focus to what’s right. The world can be filled with cynicism and negativity, bombarding us with unrealistic expectations and stereotypes. Instead of getting caught up in what’s wrong, let’s redirect our attention to the positive aspects of our lives. So, grab a glass of wine and let’s dive into the power of embracing what’s right.

The Influence of Negativity: In a world where negativity seems to have a loud voice, it’s important to acknowledge the impact it can have on our well-being. Cynicism and negative messages surround us, often painting unrealistic pictures of what defines a woman. We are bombarded with judgments about our bodies, behavior, and societal expectations. However, it’s crucial to recognize that we don’t have to internalize or accept these negative influences as our truth.

Focus on the Good: Instead of allowing negativity to consume us, let’s shift our focus to what’s right. There is so much goodness in our lives that often goes unnoticed. Take a moment each day to appreciate the simple blessings, like the air filling your lungs and the love you receive from those who truly matter. Whether it’s the love of your children or the unconditional love of your pets, these positive moments deserve our attention. Celebrate the times when you felt good about yourself, set a boundary, accomplished a task, or recognized your own brilliance.

Exercise Your Choices: Remember, you have the power of choice. You can choose to disconnect from negativity, both in the form of external influences and toxic relationships. You can choose not to answer the phone when you know it will bring negativity into your life. Embrace the choices that align with your well-being and prioritize your own peace of mind. Focus on your brilliance and purpose, because waking up each morning is a testament to your strength and resilience. Despite the challenges or negativity that may come your way, choose to have a good morning and set the tone for the day ahead.

It’s time to shift our perspective and embrace what’s right in our lives. Refuse to let negativity define you or influence your well-being. Instead, focus on the positive aspects of your life—the love you receive, the moments of personal growth, and the choices you make to prioritize your happiness. Disconnect from negativity and redirect your energy toward recognizing your brilliance and purpose.